My dd is 9.5 months now and seems to be eating less than she did when she first started blw at 6 months. used to love eating strips of chicken, roast potatoes, veggie sticks etc. nowadays shows little interest in picking up the food i put in front of her. she is mainly spoon fed at nursery. would htis be the reason for her not wanting to feed herself now? seems to only like to eat bread at the moment (so have started to make my own!) and yoghurt. still breastfed up to 5 x during the day and twice at night. should i refuse feeds to get her to eat more or is feeding on demand still the thing to do?