First of all, I'd like to say I think it's fine to take children of any age to Florida! I wouldn't judge any one else's choice.
I'm just asking for my situation personally.
I was hoping to go on a big holiday for my 40th but would also like to take our two boys to Disney. Unlikely we'd be able to afford both so I was thinking of combining the two. Ds1 will be 9, ds2 will be 6 and a half. It will likely be a once in a lifetime trip and I'm just wondering if we should wait until ds2 is a bit older if he only gets one chance of going as a child? Will he remember it? Should I just do something small for my 40th and do Florida a few years later?
Thanks everyone!