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stigma attached to council housed single mums.

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xaneesx · 12/10/2015 17:55

I wanted to know peoples opinions on single mothers living in council houses/flats. When ive asked around the first thing people mention is CHAV! I believe this is a huge stereotype and degrading, and certainly creates a self fulfilling prophecy. Im not saying u dont get your liars who scam the council into getting a free property and living of taxpayers, but is it really everyo mother in a council property, i mean u dont know their situation past history etc. Confused

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Gileswithachainsaw · 12/10/2015 17:59

They all sit on sofas dumped outside drinking special brew too Hmm

didn't you know?

and there us thinking they were just regular people going about their lives....

MushroomMama · 12/10/2015 18:03

I live in an area with a high proportion of single mums and several big council estates! The women are lovely caring and supportive that I know!

SurlyCue · 12/10/2015 18:05

Can you clarify what it is your are asking. You say people think "CHAV" but then go on to mention people "scamming" for free houses. Are you equating people's interpretation of a chav to that of someone committing fraud to get a council property? Are they the same thing to you? Can you define what you mean by "chav"? Its not clear at all what you are asking.

Floggingmolly · 12/10/2015 18:05

Why have you been "asking around"?

xaneesx · 12/10/2015 18:14

That is not my interpretation of a chav, thats is the response i have been given by others.( yes they don't know the correct definition of a chav) And ive been 'asking around' because i am a sociology student.

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SurlyCue · 12/10/2015 18:15

What is the "correct" definition of a chav?

50feetandfalling · 12/10/2015 18:18

I'm a single mum in a council house.

I'm also a qualified ski-instructor, excellent horse rider, speak five languages and am university educated.

Mental health problems don't have boundaries.

And fwiw I neck Chardonnay as good as the married mums in the posh 'ouses. So there.

Dinobab · 12/10/2015 18:19

Where are theese free properties the council are handing out exactly Hmm

xaneesx · 12/10/2015 18:21

Well the Oxford english dictionary defines "chav" as^ "a young lower-class person who displays brash and loutish behaviour and wears real or imitation designer clothes"^
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But me personally i think its just a derogatory word used to describe a stereotype^ which people attach to single mothers in council homes. Which i totally DISAGREE with.

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SurlyCue · 12/10/2015 18:33

a young lower-class person who displays brash and loutish behaviour and wears real or imitation designer clothes

Ok so how does that relate to "scamming free houses"? Confused

And again. What exactly is it you are asking? Are you looking for someone to write your essay for you?

ThenLaterWhenItGotDark · 12/10/2015 18:36

I'm reading Chavs at the moment by Owen Jones. T'is very good.

Is this post about social housing, single mothers, benefit fraud or "chavs" though?

AliceDoesntLiveHereAnymore · 12/10/2015 18:37

So it's either essay time or a journalist. Pffffft.

Dinobab · 12/10/2015 18:37

I actually haven't ever heard anyone use the word chav for years tbh, its not really a thing anymore is it? I dunno.
I only really remember hearing it when I was at school and it was just another word for "townies" which where just kids who wore tracksuits and nikes. It was townies and grungers then morphed into chavs and emos

AliceDoesntLiveHereAnymore · 12/10/2015 18:41

Nah, it's either a bunfight looking for a place to happen or a journalist/essay research attempt. Not really impressive, but hey, their posting history just started last night, so maybe they haven't quite got the knack of the right shitty tone to be a goady fucker? Hmm

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