We don't know either area at all and just searched for self catering on the south coast! Toddler is not quite 2 and we have a 4mo old as well. We're not sporty/surfers so I wondered if Bude would be a bit pointless but it is cheaper (either a chalet on a holiday park or an apartment) though an hour further to travel. Really we just want to mooch and relax and wander around somewhere new...
Sigh - so long since we had a holiday and it is our first as a family so I want to NOT be dreadfully disappointed...