I actually hate my 20 DD.. and I hate myself for saying it. I have tried so so hard. But no matter what I do she’s an awful horrible nasty person. I don’t know what to do anymore. She won’t help around the house, she hasn’t got a job she always loses them but it’s never her fault. She stays out till stupid o clock in the morning then sleeps all day. Sits chatting on the phone at 2/3am cooks during the night when everyone is sleeping showers at any hour of the night. Just constantly takes everything she can get and isn’t even thankful for what we do provide for her. Seems to think I should support her through her whole life cos I chose to have kids. How do you navigate such selfishness ? And before anyone says kick her out I’ve tried she won’t go! She pulls on my heart strings and I just can’t see her homeless. But I can’t cope with the constant crap attitude we get from her. She swears at her younger siblings who are 11 and 9. Even when I tell her not to. She smells cos she doesn’t wash her clothes regularly. And when I tell her this she says I’m just saying it to be nasty. I’m trying to help because I don’t want her being ridiculed for it. But I don’t know what to do anymore I’ve had enough. I cannot cope. She won’t wash pots, she won’t do washing. Won’t clean the bath after using it won’t even tidy her bedroom. She vapes in the house even after she’s been told not to. She has a cat but she won’t clean the cat litter and then says the house stinks of shit. Yes it’s the cat. I’ve asked her to make sure the cat is in the kitchen at night she doesn’t she leaves all the doors open so the cat roams freely and goes into her siblings and wakes them. I can’t cope anymore I hate being around her. 😢😢😢😢😢 sorry I accept she’s my responsibility and I wouldn’t see her fully without. But she goes to my mum to borrow money constantly. And her friends apparently buy her food etc when they go out. She was told by doctors to cut back on energy drinks so when I refused to buy her one she’s just said I’m going to drink double to prove you wrong. Sorry just needed to see if anyone had similar issues?