Wasn’t sure where to put this one.
My partner (male) is in a work chat with 4 other men from work.
He told me that one of the men (A) is splitting up with his girlfriend as he cheated on her with another woman from work. Whilst he was sleeping with this woman he filmed it without her knowledge. He was watching the video at home, his girlfriend caught him, and is now leaving him.
My partner told me that before this happened, A wrote in the group chat that he had something to show them all & shared the video (on view once).
I am hoping that A’s girlfriend reports this to her partners work, so the woman can be made aware & report this vile man to the police.
My partner seemed shocked, said the guy was sick but was also sort of laughing calling him disgusting. I told him if this all comes out at work they’ll all be at risk of losing their jobs (possibly?!) for seeing this video. And the fact that none of them have left the chat / reported to work / stopped
talking to this man is crazy to me. I cant understand why you’d still want to be talking to him! He says they’ve deleted all the messages.
It’s making me look at my partner different. How can we view this totaling differently? If this was me, I’d report what I’d seen to work, and never talk to the pervert again.