Several months ago I met a married man.
in a professional environment
After some weeks I noticed his behaviour was actually flirtatious.
We had much close conversation, he mentioned his unhappiness at home and vice Versa.
essentially he made me fall for him hard.
as I asked for his feelings the last day I saw him via message and found out his wife controlled his phone and social media.
I asked about his behaviour and in response got complete denial.
after some ups and downs I was unable to contact him at all to get closure from his behaviour and as our connection was the strongest I’ve ever felt and I had no way of contacting him I send a letter and hand posted it to what I thought was a secure environment and saw him pick up.
couple week passes ( I never expected a response and stated this and that the letter was the end of it for me) then get called into the police station for harassment queries.
I cannot believe the amount of time I spent worrying about what he thought of me and how it ended.
friends said he manipulated me then to prove his supposed innocence to his wife, went down this route.
im still in shock.
I wasn’t charged I gave my full version of the story from my side.
the be all and end all was don’t contact again which I was never planning to.
I can’t believe I fell for it and I’m so annoyed with myself and just needed to vent this somewhere.