Hi MrsLaughan, glad your're taking an interest
. Got to safecobs a bit before lia yesterday and had a chance to pat Troy in the field, he seemed to have the upper hand on most of the others (although apparently Eric is the field boss)
Lia caught him then I got to hose him down, unrug and tack him up, he is the easiest kind horse to handle, I would feel quite confident for my 3yr old to handle him.
I rode out lead file with Lia on Jenna, he's very forward which I really like, very pricked ears but doesn't seem to be looking to spook.
We had a few canters and I even popped a small fallen tree on him, which is the first jump I've done in 4 yrs!
He's so different from the 16hh eventer I've recently looked at but in a good way! However he seemed smaller than I expected, I guess that's why he's 'dinky' troy, I've been used to riding larger horses recently, Lia says he's well up to weight which is good as so am I 
I think he would be a sensible first choice horse for us as a family, however I do feel big on him, I hope to go back and hack him out alone another day, I don't want to rush any decisions.
Lia did video me so you may see my RL identity!