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Teacher has come back round to haunt me ...

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wingliner · 07/07/2022 00:36

I wanted to ask your opinions and advice on something.
I was 16 yes old, was receiving messages from someone who for quite sometime wouldn't tell me who they were. To them this seems a game but anyways turned out it was my teacher. How he got my mobile number I do it know, my friends swear he never gave it to him. Why would they, they said.
Anyways the messaging continued. I turned 17, he was v complimentary, I was very 17 in my mind, attitude and approach. He invited me to his house and we slept together, I stayed over a few nights and it continued. Anyway, I called it off - said it wasn't for me, left school continued with my life. He contacted me a few times via social media saying he had true feelings for me, was going to live his wife etc but I never said much back to make them think I was thinking in the same way.
I have now heard through a number of people that it has happened again and many times since. He kinda has a reputation for it and moves a lot from school to school.
I don't know what to do.
I guess when I thought it was just me I kinda thought it was fantasy, it was love and that he really did want to be with me but couldn't because of how we met but no when I hear what I have it makes me worry.

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WayDownInTheHole · 07/07/2022 22:13

This sounds utterly awful, and I am so sorry this happened to you. If you feel able to, I would report it to your previous school with as much detail as you can face. Your previous school can begin an investigation, and hopefully from there his behaviour can be addressed.

wingliner · 31/12/2024 00:01

@WayDownInTheHole
What do I do?
How do I actually prove it?
It will end his marriage?
It will end my marriage?
He has kids?
I have kids?

It will ruin everything

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