I have resigned from a job that has been quite unpleasant for the past two years. I told three close colleagues and the Head before half term. Yesterday morning, another colleague congratulated me on my new post. I asked how she knew but she didn't say. I thought that the news was in the staff room arena so told more colleagues yesterday that I'm leaving. Today I have received a message from the Head telling me that three colleagues have been to see her about my departure in the last two days. This news should be shared with every staff member at the same time, apparently! Am I in the wrong for having shared my news with a few colleagues? I'm really not into drama and didn't want the big announcement in a staff meeting. I'm not sure how to respond to the Head's email.