new thread [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5392136-advice-on-telling-my-female-friend-how-it-is-being-a-late-male-virgin https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5392136-advice-on-telling-my-female-friend-how-it-is-being-a-late-male-virgin]] previously deleted thread _[[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5392131-aibu-by-telling-my-female-friend-shes-10-wrong-here https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5392131-aibu-by-telling-my-female-friend-shes-10-wrong-here]]_