thoughts NW? [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5392131-aibu-by-telling-my-female-friend-shes-10-wrong-here https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5392131-aibu-by-telling-my-female-friend-shes-10-wrong-here]]