No idea why the original was deleted but OP has said it was removed by MN so it seems wrong to allow an identical post with a misleading title to try and hide it [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5355675-my-head-hurts https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5355675-my-head-hurts]]