[[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/bereavement/5340318-my-18-year-old-son-died-in-a-car-accident-7-weeks-ago-and-im-struggling-with-life?page=2&reply=144499065 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/bereavement/5340318-my-18-year-old-son-died-in-a-car-accident-7-weeks-ago-and-im-struggling-with-life?page=2&reply=144499065]] last two comments very inappropriate.