A lot of upset caused by this - I don't believe the OP meant to cause pain but has since acknowledged that she's misjudged the situation. Can it be hidden before more upset is caused?
To ask people to remember parents of loss on mother’s day http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/3535182-To-ask-people-to-remember-parents-of-loss-on-mother-s-day