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Ridiculous rules for adopting rescue cats.

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Catlovverr · 28/09/2026 08:37

Last year we adopted 2 gorgeous boys from Celia Hammond. Having had cats all our lives and being devastated after having to put our old girl to sleep, we soon started to look into adopting new rescues. What we hadn’t prepared for, was how difficult it would be.
We have had rescues all our lives, who have all lived to a grand old age with all the veterinary care needed. We live in a large 3 storey house with a massive garden full of trees on a quiet road. Our garden is backing onto other large gardens also full of trees. Cats paradise we thought.
But oh no, leaving aside the RSPCA who didn’t even respond to our request, we were rejected by Battersea for not having a cat flap despite cats having free access out of a window with safe passage into our garden. We had 30 years of cats using that passage behind us. Window is always left open during the day and closed only at night when we keep them in. The second reason for rejection from Battersea was that we didn’t let our cats outside when we go on holiday. We leave them in the house with family or neighbours popping in twice a day. Reason for that is I want to make sure they are around for their food and are seen by the cat sitters so I know they are ok. Battersea said my cats would be stressed not being let out then despite being in their own home which is large enough for them to not feel confined. Not sure what response people who use catteries would get….
Battersea was also worried that there was one day a week we were both working so no one at home. One of us always wfh rest of week.
The most bonkers rejection was from a smallish rescue. They rejected us because we didn’t have locks on all windows so they worried cats would fall out. This is despite me reassuring them we never left the windows facing the road open for that exact reason.
In hindsight I know I could just lie, I wasn’t prepared for having to lie I guess.
I also understand people have to be properly vetted and that people who run rescues see a lot of neglect and abuse so obviously cautious.

We had a really good experience with Celia Hammond. They sent someone around for a house checks who approved us more or less on the spot. Have donated to them monthly ever since.

Had to write this down having just walked past a poster advertising for a Battersea about how much they care. All I can think of is their ridiculous vetting which most likely leaves a lot of animals caged with them much longer than need be.

OP posts:
WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 30/09/2026 15:31

FluffyBoots · 30/09/2026 13:06

I had been trying to do so for two and a half years. With love and kindness. You seem to indicate that his behaviour was all my fault, that I instigatged it? That I didn't 'attempt(ed) to address their issues and distress'. Do you have some information here on these particular cats that I don't?!

What I expressed here was the very very last straw. Everything had been done to look after this very clingy little boy (his sister was very chilled) and stop him from pissing all over my house, with the help of vets advice and that of cat's protection.

The way in which Cats Protection behaved was thankfully supportive. Having to part them them was really hard for myself and my 3 children.

Maybe that poster read your post the same as me - I thought you had sent the cats back after a few days. But now I think you meant it was a few days after the mattress incident, which was 2.5 years after you adopted them?

sueelleker · 30/09/2026 15:55

We had similar problems when wanting to rescue a dog. We adore spaniels, but when we tried to get one from a rescue centre, they offered us a totally different breed, When we declined, they said that if we weren't prepared to take what they offered, we weren't true dog lovers! At this point, no-one had done a home review; so they didn't even know if the dog they were trying to offload would be suitable for us. We've gone through breed rescues since then.

FluffyBoots · 30/09/2026 18:20

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 30/09/2026 15:31

Maybe that poster read your post the same as me - I thought you had sent the cats back after a few days. But now I think you meant it was a few days after the mattress incident, which was 2.5 years after you adopted them?

Hi. Yes, 2.5 years. it was really distressing for my 3 children too.

Sorry if i mislead x

Worthalltheyears · Yesterday 18:49

We’ve just adopted 2 cats from a local independent rescue.
We live near a busy road and I was honest about this. I was told that we could adopt from them but it would be an indoor cat, we would need to provide a catio or supervise when the cats are outside.
All is going well. We went for the supervised access which is working well. We’ve secured the garden as much as is possible and keep a close eye on them outside.
I’m grateful for the more nuanced approach of the is local rescue. I don’t think we’d have had a chance with any of the big charities.

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