My boy cat died leaving my female as a solo cat.
Less than a week later I adopted a rescue boy, who is peeing on my clothes, bawling at night, the house stinks to high heaven, and I think I’ve made a stupid mistake in taking him.
He is desperate to see girl cat, he cries for her. She is curious. They “talk” through the door. My house has a door by the stairs so atm he has the run of upstairs, she downstairs.
But I can’t cope with the peeing in the house. He has a litter tray which he uses for poos. He’s timid with me, won’t come to me but will be in the room with me.
I woke at 5am because he’d peed by my bed and the stink of it woke me up.
I want to return him but feel so ashamed.