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Cat with cancer pooping on the floor

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whoputallofthatthere · 11/01/2026 09:29

Hi,
My 11 year old cat has aggressive lymphoma in her intestines. Ultrasound showed multiple tumours. The vet told us that they could operate, but they would have to remove a large section of her bowel and even then she'd need chemo and the cancer would likely return, so we have made the decision not to put her through this. She is on palliative care (steroids.)

She has always been perfectly toilet trained, but in the last couple of weeks she has started pooping on the floor all over the house. Weirdly she's also sometimes still going in the tray, so she knows where it is etc. The tray is definitely clean and nothing has changed - it's in the same position it's always been in, same litter as always, etc.

Does anyone have any advice on what we could do? It's unsanitary, the house stinks, and I'm worried that she is in distress of some kind. The thing is, I don't feel the time is quite right for euthanasia - she's still enthusiastic about food, comes for cuddles with lots of purring etc - and I don't want to have her put to sleep out of a sense of convenience to us. But what if she's more distressed than I realise? She doesn't groom herself anymore, doesn't play, doesn't want to go outside, and she's so so skinny now. I love her so much and just want to do what's right for her.

I will phone the vet for advice tomorrow but as she's already on palliative care, I don't think there is much else they can do to help her.

Does anyone have any experience of this, or any advice? Thank you

OP posts:
whoputallofthatthere · 28/01/2026 17:31

Hellohelga · 28/01/2026 17:20

You did the right thing. Sorry for your loss.

Edited

Thank you so much

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abracadabra1980 · 28/01/2026 17:36

justasking111 · 11/01/2026 10:09

I'm so sorry 😔. I'd let him go now his cancer sounds unbearable. Speak to the vet in the morning.

100% agree with this poster. Please put him out of his misery asap. So sorry for you OP.

landlordhell · 28/01/2026 17:37

Chemenger · 11/01/2026 09:40

Honestly, not grooming, losing weight, not playing and toileting issues indicate a very unhappy cat. I would seriously consider putting her to sleep before things get worse. She’s seeking comfort from you because she doesn’t feel well.

This. Sorry.

ChocHotolate · 28/01/2026 17:40

landlordhell · 28/01/2026 17:37

This. Sorry.

And this is why you need to read at least all the OP’s posts first

Myfridgeiscool · 28/01/2026 17:42

You’ve definitely done the right thing OP.
It hurts so much, making the decision, even when we know it is the right decision.
It just proves how very much we love them.
Big hugs OP.

whoputallofthatthere · 28/01/2026 20:58

Myfridgeiscool · 28/01/2026 17:42

You’ve definitely done the right thing OP.
It hurts so much, making the decision, even when we know it is the right decision.
It just proves how very much we love them.
Big hugs OP.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kindness.

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caringcarer · 28/01/2026 22:02

Chemenger · 11/01/2026 09:40

Honestly, not grooming, losing weight, not playing and toileting issues indicate a very unhappy cat. I would seriously consider putting her to sleep before things get worse. She’s seeking comfort from you because she doesn’t feel well.

I think the time has come for you to let you kitty go whilst she still has dignity. Cats hate pooping in the house it really stresses them. Her quality of life is not there anymore.

Gribouille · 30/01/2026 16:32

It honestly sounds like the right decision. The fact she went downhill the day after you mailed says to me that you 'knew' subconsciously it was the right time - you knew her well enough to see the subtle change.

We love them so much, I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you had your time with her. 🤗

whoputallofthatthere · 30/01/2026 17:55

Gribouille · 30/01/2026 16:32

It honestly sounds like the right decision. The fact she went downhill the day after you mailed says to me that you 'knew' subconsciously it was the right time - you knew her well enough to see the subtle change.

We love them so much, I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you had your time with her. 🤗

Thank you so much. I think you are right, I knew the time had arrived but just did not want to let her go. It was the right decision though to have her put to rest, as hard as it was.

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Nearly50omg · 30/01/2026 18:14

RIP kitty 💔

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