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My little buddy has been pts

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K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 19:46

He was 16. He was here with me since I was 18 and in my first flat. He's seen the entrance of DP, my dc, 5 other cats, my dog, 3 house moves, my mum having cancer, my grandad dying, redundancy... I feel very empty.

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TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 20/11/2024 19:48

I’m so sorry to hear that. He was clearly very loved.

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 19:58

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 20/11/2024 19:48

I’m so sorry to hear that. He was clearly very loved.

Thank you. He was very loved. And will be so missed. My dc are heartbroken x

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Pudmyboy · 20/11/2024 20:33

So sorry to hear of your loss, what a lovely life he had with you, plainly very loved💐
When you are ready, would you like to share a picture of your little love?

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 20:36

This was him earlier on today. He'd got cancer and he was really starting to struggle. I didn't want to keep him going for me. It was such a hard decision. But I didn't want to leave him until it was too late. He was still enjoying his food, but he was rapidly losing so much weight.

My little buddy has been pts
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Tellmeagain · 20/11/2024 20:40

He's gorgeous. I'm so sorry. It sounds like you acted at the right time. Big hug.

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 20:42

Tellmeagain · 20/11/2024 20:40

He's gorgeous. I'm so sorry. It sounds like you acted at the right time. Big hug.

Thank you. I hope we did. I told him I hoped he knew I was doing it for him x

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TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 20/11/2024 20:43

Handsome boy! It’s so hard to make that choice. It was right.

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 20:45

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 20/11/2024 20:43

Handsome boy! It’s so hard to make that choice. It was right.

Thank you. This last week, I know it's awful, but I wished every day I'd find him dead, curled up in his favourite spot so I didn't need to make the decision for him.

The vet was wonderful and he agreed 100% with our decision. I am going to send an email to tell them how lovely he was and how much it meant to us.

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CatChant · 20/11/2024 21:10

I’m sorry. For us it always comes too soon.

He was beautiful and clearly very much loved. I hope it will be a comfort to know you gave him a happy life and freedom from pain when he needed it. Take care.

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 21:27

CatChant · 20/11/2024 21:10

I’m sorry. For us it always comes too soon.

He was beautiful and clearly very much loved. I hope it will be a comfort to know you gave him a happy life and freedom from pain when he needed it. Take care.

Thank you. I've just come to bed. And his hair is all over my duvet and I am trying to quietly sob so I don't upset the dc again. God it's so hard.

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 22/11/2024 14:40

Oh , how Sad but how lucky you are to have had the unconditional love and the peaceful presence of that little furry panther throughout the years and how your life changed .

You did him proud right the way through his life and when it mattered at the end , you did right by him.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 22/11/2024 14:42

Though he does look a tad judgey in that photo , had you dared to wake him up ?

K0OLA1D · 22/11/2024 15:12

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 22/11/2024 14:42

Though he does look a tad judgey in that photo , had you dared to wake him up ?

We had woken him up. I think he was getting a bit fed up of being forced treats and cuddles over the last week.

Thank you for your kind words x

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bluebalou · 22/11/2024 15:19

What a gorgeous cat, you've done the kindest thing not making him wait and being with him, bless you Flowers

oakleaffy · 22/11/2024 15:24

K0OLA1D · 20/11/2024 20:36

This was him earlier on today. He'd got cancer and he was really starting to struggle. I didn't want to keep him going for me. It was such a hard decision. But I didn't want to leave him until it was too late. He was still enjoying his food, but he was rapidly losing so much weight.

What a Beautiful boy!
You did right by him.
He sounds a very special 🐈‍⬛ Cat.

Mum still talks of her childhood cats - and she’s in her 80’s.

I hope when we too die, our Souls will meet up again with beloved animals.

Unscientific- but it’s what every animal lover hopes for.
💕

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