15 year old cat, has a cat flap, never been in a cattery.
The longest he's been left is 2 weeks before. But fairly regularly for a week or weekends. Neighbour feeds him morning and night and he gets a visit and a fuss from the in laws or a friend most days..not every day.
He's a bit needy but fine when we get back.
I'm wondering if 3 weeks is too long for this set up - or should we put him in a cattery - which he'd hate.