So far my 11.5 yo lady has had blood tests ruling out hyperthyroidism, steroids, pre biotics, probiotics, antibiotics and vitamins. She has lost masses of weight but eats more than ever, and has 10/12 bouts of diarrhoea a day. She's never been an outdoor cat (her choice) but always liked to look outside, and watch the birds and squirrels. Now when not eating she just lies on her side on the floor. She isn't drinking copious amounts so the vet doesn't think it's diabetes.
I'm struggling to cope with the constant cleaning up, feeding, and smells. I work over 50 hrs a week, have a disabled adult daughter who is struggling with the car being so ill and it's making my other 2 cats stressed too. We also live in a rented house and I'm scared they'll ask for an inspection.
I don't know what to do for my lovely old lady cat. I think it's probably cancer. The next tests will be a scan but she gets so scared going to the vets that she hid for 2 days afterwards last time.
What would you do, in my shoes?
Thank you.