Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

The litter tray

Join our community of cat lovers on the Mumsnet Cat forum for kitten advice and help with cat behaviour.

Goodbye Ollie

48 replies

Kyse23 · 18/05/2023 21:48

I've been posting on here since I adopted him in 2015 and tomorrow I say goodbye to him
Nothing dramatic but he's having repeated cystitis and it's just time, even if it is slightly too early. I want him to go in a dignified way, not rushed or too late because I love him so fiercely

Added a few of my fave pics of him Sad
My heart is breaking but I need to get through work tomorrow

Goodbye Ollie
Goodbye Ollie
Goodbye Ollie
OP posts:
Words · 21/05/2023 04:52

Thinking about you OP. Flowers

Florissant · 21/05/2023 09:54

How are you today, Kyse?

Igmum · 21/05/2023 22:21

Sending love to you and fond memories of the beautiful Ollie ❤️

Dilbertian · 21/05/2023 22:32

(((Hugs))) to you and Ollie.

The toughest decision, but part of being loving and responsible.

Words · 24/05/2023 05:58

Are you ok @Kyse23 ?
Thinking of you.

Kyse23 · 24/05/2023 10:35

Words · 24/05/2023 05:58

Are you ok @Kyse23 ?
Thinking of you.

Thank you, I am. He's being looked after by my friend at the crematorium

OP posts:
CatChant · 24/05/2023 11:01

I am so sorry. Your lovely Ollie had such a distinctive, character-filled little face I always recognised him whatever name you were wearing to post. I think I would have known him if he had turned up on my doorstep.

Be kind to yourself. It is hard to say goodbye to such a dearly-loved friend even when you know it is the right thing to do.

Words · 24/05/2023 11:10

Take care Kyse. Ollie was a one-off and your incredible connection was obvious for all to see. Well done for doing the right thing for him, despite the terrible pain it causes.

Kyse23 · 24/05/2023 11:30

He has sent me another cat (thanks Ollie) who is being vetted on Friday so paws crossed
Will never replace him but I have another void weirdo (new cat is scared of birds....) to pour love into Smile
Ollie was fostered in 2015 by X. Turns out X left and set up her own charity. New cat is from her charity so it feels totally right

OP posts:
Florissant · 24/05/2023 14:15

I can't wait to see the photos of the new void weirdo!

Words · 24/05/2023 14:20

Fabulous news Smile

Kyse23 · 24/05/2023 14:25

Florissant · 24/05/2023 14:15

I can't wait to see the photos of the new void weirdo!

He's a chunk

Goodbye Ollie
OP posts:
Words · 24/05/2023 15:33

Oh wow! Grin Does he have a name?

Kyse23 · 24/05/2023 15:34

Words · 24/05/2023 15:33

Oh wow! Grin Does he have a name?

Shady Smile

OP posts:
Words · 24/05/2023 15:35

Shady is one lucky, luck ladGrin

F1ymetothetoon · 24/05/2023 16:03

He looks magnificent 😻

MotorOilHeiress · 24/05/2023 16:30

Sorry for the loss of Ollie. Xxx u did a decent thing for a lovely puss. And wow welcome shady. I'm sure your mum will be purfect for you.

Florissante · 24/05/2023 16:48

Kyse23 · 24/05/2023 14:25

He's a chunk

He's a handsome boy. Welcome to MN, Shady!

Vinorosso74 · 24/05/2023 19:01

That's lovely your friend is looking after Ollie at the crematorium.
As for Shady, he looks like another character. He will never be a replacement for Ollie but he will fill another space in your heart. There are always cats in rescues looking for new homes and this one appears to be just right.
Has Paws been around?

bonfirebash · 18/06/2023 01:37

Vinorosso74 · 24/05/2023 19:01

That's lovely your friend is looking after Ollie at the crematorium.
As for Shady, he looks like another character. He will never be a replacement for Ollie but he will fill another space in your heart. There are always cats in rescues looking for new homes and this one appears to be just right.
Has Paws been around?

I've NC Smile
Yes paws has been and met the new cat
Shady has already stopped him coming in the window and done a very Ollie "you are peasant cat" face at him
He loves playing fetch, belly rubs and head butting me and is healing my heart while being strangely like Ollie

Goodbye Ollie
Vinorosso74 · 18/06/2023 10:12

Aw what a sweetheart. His coat looks like velvet. That's funny he's acting like Ollie and good to hear he's helping you heal.
He looks quite settled in.

Supersimkin2 · 18/06/2023 12:18

Shady is just a heart melter. Desperately sweet.

Words · 19/06/2023 05:58

Wonderful ! Smile

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread