Thank you to everyone for your kindness
Got the PM results back - vet rang tonight Reuben died of a very large kidney stone which totally blocked kidney and ureter, vet said he had build up of uric acid crystals and it’s possible the stress of Evie’s death combined with not eating/drinking properly because of that caused the stone to get big enough to cause his death there is nothing we could have done - if he had been a lone indoor cat the only symptom would have been noticing non use of litter tray
poor little thing! I miss him dreadfully
there will be more toxicology results in a few weeks but unlikely to show anything new
Vet and PM place were lovely and reassured me it was just one of those things that we couldn’t have prevented or known about
I had said to DS if he wasn’t any better I would ring vet at end of week which would’ve been a week after she died but it was too late by then