After having the worst year of my life I brought 2 ragdoll kittens into our home 3 weeks ago, they are 23 weeks old so not teeny tiny kittens. My OH would not want any pets given the choice but I felt strongly about having pets and so, he had no choice. He vowed not to have anything to do with them what so ever and spent the first two weeks totally ignoring them. Even now he barely looks at them but will occasionally tell them to stop scratching the sofa.
Obviously the cats adore him and only look my way when I feed them. They occasionally come my way for scritches but it's him they wany really. Why don't they love me? I'm their food/poop slave and I know its early days but how can I make them like me more?