We have a long hair moggy and she is great at grooming herself but really does need to be brushed. She gets the occasional mat particularly at this time of year and when leaves or seeds get stuck in her coat. The problem is we can only get about 4 brush strokes in before she shreds us. I don't know if a more gentle brush or comb would help? Or send her to a groomer? If a groomer would even accept her? If anyone has any advice I would be extremely grateful.