I know that I'm his servant...but on average how long does it take a cat to learn how to use a cat flap? We've had a few successes after lots of coaxing....but sitting on my kitchen floor isn't what I envisaged. Do I need to be more patient? His food is right by it...he just needs to put his head through to get it. I've left food on the other side to tempt him but it's doing nothing.
How stubborn are cats?