We’ve had kitten for 3 weeks. We took intros really slowly as cat was very jealous.
In the last few days, the kitten has been with us all for most of the day. The cat has been calmer ow that she sees a lot of the kitten, but she rarely relaxes. She’s constantly on guard in case the kitten is round the corner or higher up than her. The cat is hissing intermittently, in fact we were joking that she’d lost her voice from it so it now sounds like a kazoo. Funnily, she’s not that fussed about the kitten taking her food or about the attention we give the kitten. It seems to be more about territory.
Will she relax? I can’t imagine her ever snuggling with the kitten.