Since we got our new little kittens, our older cat (who was a rescue and has come a long way since being very nervy and jumpy when we first had her) won't let me anywhere near her!
Introductions between her and the kittens are happening very, very gradually, we are keeping them separate but she is aware of them, and is getting noticeably less nervous of coming near where they are etc. We're scent-swapping slowly and making sure she comes in for fuss and attention when they're not around. Just the past two days we've done an hour each evening when they're all three loose in the house at the same time, and she'll come within a couple of feet of them without hissing or growling. Her food and water etc are completely separate from the kittens'. She's eating normally and is OK with dh, but she seems to be blaming ME entirely for the disruption to her life, she won't let me stroke her or come to my call like she used to 
she just doesn't seem to like me any more!
What can I do to get back my bond with her?