Please help without judgement...
We got our 8 yr old (neutered) boy cat from Cats Protection 7 years ago. He’s been a great pet - very good and patient with the kids and cuddly (when it suits him). Until recently he would get into the odd fight (turf wars) which would sometimes require veterinary treatment (thank goodness for insurance)... However, in the last 12 months he has gotten into so many terrible fights with very serious consequences. We have spent thousands at the vet (yes we have insurance but an £80 excess every time). Realising that we can’t carry on like this we have attempted to make him an indoor cat. He is not happy (understandably) and regularly attempts to escape which causes us a lot of stress. He succeeded today and has just come back with two massive puncture wounds oozing blood. I’ve bathed them (hibiscrub) and will be off to the vets AGAIN first thing.
WWYD in the circumstances? We do love him but can’t carry on as we are. He’s miserable, we’re stressed (and broke!)... what are our options? All advice and suggestions welcome.
TIA