My 2 little fur babies are going into the vet tomorrow for spaying and neutering (I think that's the correct terms) I've only ever had boy cats and I'm worried about the girl as she seems so small. The vet has advised i have them 'sorted' at 5 months being brother and sister together. I'm guessing she is going to take longer to recover - will I need to keep them separate when I bring them home? Will he want to lick her wound? And does that mean she will need a cone of shame? Attached a photo because everybody loves a kitten pic don't they?