Dear Dierdre, how can I stop my precious little princess dating the bad boy from the wrong side of the tracks?
Recently we fixed up cat netting over the french doors so I could have them open in this hot weather without the furballs escaping. All been going well, Boycat has stopped trying to headbutt through it and Girlcat has stopped trying to squeeze through the 3cm holes in it.
Today Girlcat was sitting next to it catching a breeze when she started to make the chirruping noise she normally only makes when her boyfriend from over the road visits at the front of the house. I looked over to see her kissing touching noses through the mesh with the evil ginger & white tom that has put at least 3 local cats in hospital, sprays all over my garden, and is one of the reasons why I wanted indoor only cats! He then wandered a short way off & lay down staring at her with what I was inagining was a lascivious expression, while she sat riveted & only moved long after he finally moved away.