Hello! I lurke here and this is my first post. We adopted a beautiful black and white girl when she was 11 weeks old. She was nutty but lovely and affectionate. She was spayed about 5 weeks ago and now it's like she's suddenly grown up and become a stroppy teenager. She doesn't climb up on shelves and swipe everything down anymore or dig up the potted plants (I never thought I would miss that but I do) and now she chooses the bathroom with underfloor heating over my lap every time. She will follow me all over the house and then pointedly ignore me when I chat to her. So cute but I miss her affectionate side. Will she get over it or is this her now? I shut the bathroom door now so she has no choice but to sit on my lap 