I have seen a cat on a rescue website and obviously have fallen in love 
Called the centre and had a good discussion about him, his needs, his temprement etc, sent them paperwork etc and he seems really suitable. Did I mention I love him?
Just had a look at where the centre is and it's fecking miles away. I've no idea why it came up in my postcode search. I don't drive but it is an hour by car and nearly THREE HOURS by train (with four yr old DD) - they are having an open day at the centre tomorrow and he will bloody well go won't he? 
I might try train on Sunday and just hope for the best but if it goes well will still have to go back to collect him and ARRRRGH.