In talking to NDN DH discovered that one of our cats has been visiting her house for food. They have 2 cats and have a cat flap. We have 3 cats so have a cat flap because otherwise we'd be constantly letting cats in and out. We also have a toddler so I think said cat has been hanging out at theirs for the peace and quiet.
We can't keep the cat locked in. Is there any way to discourage cat from going next door? If not should we offer to paid towards ND cat food bill?