Our 6yr old male (neutered) tabby cat is driving me crazy. About 3 times a week he'll come in and eat but straight after he loudly meows & fusses to be let back out. If he sees me in the garden or near the house he runs over for a stroke so I don't think he dislikes me lol and the winter he'll come in for a while to sleep at the top of the stairs but otherwise he just won't come in. I'm starting to begrudge him a little now (sounds mean I know) but I spend nearly £100 a year to insure him and he's not really like our cat. Our other cat (she died last year) was the opposite only went out to use the loo then curled up on the sofa again.