we got a rescue cat at christmas. She is lovely, we did the usual thing and kept her in for the first month and then let her out. She loves going out but does not like using her cat flap. For the first couple of weeks when she started going out we didn't have the cat flap so let her out the door/window, now she only wants to enter/exit via door and window. I've pushed her through the cat flap loads of times but she is still really reluctant. Its one of the magnetic cat flaps. Most of the time I sit it out and will only let her in via the cat flap. But shes now at the point that she is getting distressed if you pick her up to get her through the cat flap. Any ideas anyone?