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Beyond Adolescence - V

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SpanielsGalore · 06/10/2026 15:05

New topic for a new thread, inspired by a post about poo bags.

Does your dog's poo smell?

I was under the impression that dog poo only smells bad if the food doesn't suit the dog. Same goes for flatulence.

The only time my dogs' poo smells or they have windy bottoms is if they've eaten something rotten they've found on a walk.

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CoubousAndTourmaIet · 26/10/2026 09:40

No tough love here either @Struckbylightning . All ours have been through phases of getting bored with the food, so we just change to something else for a while, even if it's a different flavour of the same brand.

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 26/10/2026 09:47

@SpanielsGalore Ohh bless her! Definitely far worse ways to wake up than a gentle poke and a loving pair of eyes peeping at you. 😍That being said, mine do that sometimes...just stare at me until I wake up and it's a tad creepy. But that's probably a size thing, it's probably much cuter when it's a cocker spaniel.

Bless C❤I know what you mean though. There are just some dogs that 'teach' you more than you expect them to. Sometimes I think the dogs that 'need' a bit more are the ones that you remember the most fondly. Sure that's why my mum loves Satan so much (cos there's surely no other reason...)

Twatdog licks her bum and I do mean licks. He properly slurps at it. They sort of curl around each other to do it. All very grotty😳

@Struckbylightning I don't do the tough love approach either!😂Clearly we're all a bit soft around here. You could try her on different food (mine love Lily's kitchen every now and then...although I do not as it makes them all a bit ponky).

I had a bit of a 'to-do' on my morning walk. Was coming back along a quite busy bit of road and the pavement gets really narrow ( @Silverbirchleaf, you might know it - the bendy bit on Sevenoaks High Street) where you literally cannot walk two people side by side and there was someone walking toward me with some sort of bully thing. It had a huge fit (lunging and snarling at the end of its harness and throwing itself about) when it saw my dogs and the woman just stood there. I have no idea what she thought I was going to do. But she kept calling 'she's friendly'.

I just waited for her to cross the road to the pavement on the other side. I got quite a mouthful of abuse as well for refusing to move. But the fact was, she was facing the oncoming traffic so she could have moved into the road safely, I had my back to it so couldn't. Either way...surely, logic dictates if you have one dog it's a lot easier for you to move than it is someone with five!?

Whenever I took Satan out with DMum, when she first got her, we always moved out of the way because Satan was the problem (I mean, she's still a problem - only these days she's just old and crusty rather than stropping and scared).😂

SpanielsGalore · 26/10/2026 10:51

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks That is absolutely gross. 🤢🤢🤢 God, dogs can be vile.

I can imagine a big GR head looming over you is more creepy than K's little pin head from a distance.
P woke me up in the middle of the night, looming over me a while ago. That was a bit more startling. Turned out K had stolen her bed and she needed Mummy to make her move.

What a silly woman! Her dog certainly doesn't sound friendly. It amazes me when people with reactive dogs walk them up to other dogs. Not ony isn't it fair to other peope; it's not fair to their own dog. I always avoided other dogs wih my reactive one, as I didn't want to put him in a situation that made him worried and stressed and feel the need to react.

It's the calm after the storm here today. Only 7°, but not even a breeze. Lots of damage in the area - trees, fences, garage doors and roofs damaged or gone.
I was more gutted that I broke my streak and didn't manage to get my 10k steps in.

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Struckbylightning · 26/10/2026 13:33

Thanks everyone, you have made me feel better. It seems more common than I thought for a dog to be a fussy eater. I will buy another flavour and see if that helps. She has now eaten about half her breakfast after I added some hot water and grated cheese. She does still scoff training treats and other titbits through the day.
@tizwozliz she has now had 2 seasons. The last one was in August so she shouldn’t be due another one yet.
@@SpanielsGalore your poor dd! Surely if you have a sick child you don’t force anything!?
@TheHungryHungryLandsharks that woman sounds like a twat. I agree, the person with the reactive dog should be the one to change paths. I also hate the ‘he’s friendly’ people. Often the dog is definitely not friendly! There was a Jack Russel who lived next door to us. The owner insisted that he was just being friendly when in fact it was snarling and trying to get to Pippins throat, teeth snapping and spittle flying. It was bizarre!

Had a very pleasant walk this morning, it was so mild I was overdressed. Lots of damaged trees here as well. I think the trees suffered so badly in the drought some of them are just snapping or keeling over.

Silverbirchleaf · 26/10/2026 13:41

I have a lab. He’s never been fussy about food!

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks Can’t believe someone with one dog expected you with a gaggle of goldies to move!

tizwozliz · 26/10/2026 13:48

I think if her last one was August then it could still be hormonal, 60 days or so after is when they'd give birth, so it could be slight phantom pregnancy related? Their hormones still carry on as though they're pregnant even if they're not.

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 26/10/2026 13:51

@Silverbirchleaf she was really struggling with it as well. Had to haul it between her legs and grab it around the harness to stop it lunging. 😞

A gaggle of Goldies is a nice way to put it! 😂

@Struckbylightning Glad to hear she ate a bit of breakfast. I love the idea that she just wants something else and is having a bit of a sulk until she gets what she wants. Mine never do that...but then again, retrievers aren't smart enough to do that!

Agree with you on the tree thing - there seem to be way more than I would expect so it must have been the warm summer.

There's loads here fallen here. And lots of people are still driving like total twats - saw more than a few last minute massive swerves this morning including the guy up my bum who nearly drove off the road and down the hill onto the A21.

@SpanielsGalore it is. And the noises they make are even worse than the actual licking. It's obscene.

The breathing over me is worse than the looming! I can forgive the looming. But the breathing...no one wants to be woken up with hot breath on their face.

Awwww, bless P for needing you to help her ❤How did K react when she was evicted from her stolen bed?

SpanielsGalore · 26/10/2026 15:26

@Struckbylightning DD was under a pediatrician for the first 2 or 3 years as she never made it onto the centile charts. For some reason, they decided she couldn't have rusks for breakfast and I had to switch to Weetabix, with the old 'offer it for every meal and eventually she'll eat it' and 'no child will starve itself' advice. I tried for one day, then went back to rusk. Eventually they decided she was just small. 🙄

@tizwozliz could be right about Merry's lack of eating being hormonal. Remember K's complete personality change about three months after her season, due to a phantom pregnancy? Although being off her food was the only thing that wasn't wrong with her.

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks N is a slurper. It's gross. And she always starts the minute I sit down to eat.
The other thing she's started doing since she's gone a bit senile is licking poo. Which in many ways is worse than K's eating it.

K didn't care about being evicted from P's bed. I don't know what possessed her to do it. Perhaps she still holds out hope that P will let her snuggle up one day. Either that or she's a tormenting little shit.

Absolutely pissing it down here and we are on a severe weather warning again for tomorrow. Meanwhile DS is moaning about 26°. Takes me back to the summer heatwaves and listening to you all moaning about the sun.
He's sending me lots of videos of elephants though, so that makes up for his whining. They can see them from the camp this time. ❤️

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Struckbylightning · 26/10/2026 17:15

@tizwozliz I hadn’t thought of that. She has had some slight behaviour changes as well, such as suddenly not wanting to be dried when she used to be fine with it, and struggling to listen to commands. I mean really not wanting to be dried. She did an air snap at me the other day which has got me worried again about whether it is actually a problem as that stupid vet suggested.

@SpanielsGalore your poor dd. Out of interest, is she still small? And lucky ds, elephants are amazing.

I have just realised something a bit mortifying. Merry responds to me saying ‘fuck off’. When I say it she gallops into the garden to see off a cat. Thing is, I wasn’t talking to a cat, I was talking to her because she was whining at me to play when I was trying to have a cuppa.
pic of her giving me the hard collie eye in an effort to make me play…

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TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 26/10/2026 17:32

@SpanielsGalore they used to say eating/licking poo was a sign of lack of nutrients. But I think, it's definitely a sign of old age in dogs (Satan did it before her dementia meds).

I like to think K was being hopeful and not a tormenter. It's my soft side😂

How is DS finding it other than the elephants and the heat? I do sort of sympathise with the heat as his body is probably telling him it should be cold given it would be if he was home (plus doesn't he have to wear uniform?). How long is his tour?

Pouring here and windy. DDogs aren't getting an evening walk but they got 4 miles this morning and 2 mile at lunch, so they're pretty happy. DH and DDs did the lunch walk and got soaked but when I did the morning one I just managed to miss the worst of the rain😂

@Struckbylightning I don't know what it more beautiful, Merry or your Loaf sofa! The two of them together are pretty much the perfect dog/sofa advert. Loaf should pay you for advertising right. That toy is nearly as big as her though!!!

SpanielsGalore · 26/10/2026 17:58

@Struckbylightning She's around 5' 2", which is taller than me. Next baby also never placed on the charts, but they didn't bother monitoring him.

That's funny about Merry thinking you were talking about the cat. It's amazing what they pick up by osmosis.
Those ears are seriously impressive.

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks I was told it's only lack of nutrients if they eat their own poo. Eating other dogs is just for fun. 🤢
It's interesting that Satan started doing it to in her dotage.

DS is enjoying it this time round. It was a last minute deployment for 5 weeks and he really didn't want to go. But he says this time is like a holiday compared to last year.
The company out there training needed drone flyers for some exercises, so there's only 8 of them gone.

I'm debating an evening walk. Still raining here and the dogs have only just dried off. But I have 3000 steps to do, so I might go without them. 😂

Photo of a family of elephants. Going on a safari is the only thing on my bucket list, so I'm not envious of DS at all. (I used to have do a parachute jump on there too, but I did one of those for my 40th birthday.)

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Silverbirchleaf · 26/10/2026 17:58

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks is do right when it comes to a beautiful dog on a beautiful sofa. Has lovely Bill now got competition…?

Has anyone seen the face/instragram posts of Pye Ash farm and their sheepdogs? Theres a gorgeous collie pup (almost as gorgeous as Merry)who keeps escaping, despite efforts to keep her in the puppy pen, garden etc. it’s lovely and comical.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 26/10/2026 19:12

Merry is gorgeous @Struckbylightning and yes, I confess to being another admirer of your very beautiful sofa.

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks I have absolutely no idea how it is even possible to walk 5 Golden Retrievers anywhere at all, let alone along a town pavement. Seriously in awe. Takes me all my time to walk one Pyrenean and I'm probably like the Bully person, grabbing the harness and hanging on for dear life. Hopefully Brie is not quite so antisocial though she leaves that to me I don't suppose you'd like to train two Pyreneans would you...? Payment in coffee and all the cake you can eat...😁

So, I suspect the puppy thread that I so bravely started will now die a death because two of them brought the crate debate over. I sat on it quietly for a couple of hours but then talked about free range puppy rearing. Some people seem to think non-crated pups bounce off the walls all night and wreck the house but I still maintain that freedom puppies develop adult behaviours early. But then I could be talking complete shite and it might only apply to my breed...🤔However I think people fear the idea of free range like they fear dogs from working lines because they think they're all a bit mental. And it's nowhere near as bad as you'd imagine on either count. In my experience as a very anxious, scatty and incompetent dog person.

So, little Odo had his first tiny walk today on his cutesy baby harness. Pavement only, up and down our road. He hasn't had the final L4 so got to be a bit careful. He saw a small terrier being walked on the opposite side of the road, a girl walked past us, two cars went by and he was unbothered. He's 11 weeks and really too young to have very much awareness yet, still very babyish, but I suppose it all helps to acclimatise him to vehicles and stuff. I hesitate to call it socialisation because I mostly go out of my way to avoid doing that.

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 26/10/2026 19:56

@CoubousAndTourmaIet I was going to say something but decided not to and then just posted anyway. 😱Anyway, hopefully I've diverted the chat and everyone can now talk about raising a puppy with an adult dog around... I will not let your thread die (mostly cos I'll need it when Tuna-Fish comes here...). I kept meaning to reply to that poster about raising a puppy with mum around...but just kept forgetting.

I would love to take your PMDs - and I certainly wouldn't need payment! Spending time with them would be enough. But I do rely solely on 'food' to train and wouldn't know how to work with any dog that wasn't in it for the food 😂But it does really help that 2 of my 5 are older, one is just a massive mummy's boy loser who doesn't like to cause problems these days and the other two don't have the braincells to cause chaos. Plus when I'm walking along narrow bits of pavement I usually have some chicken in one hand to capture their attention.

That sounds fab for Odo though! And a testament to what a robust dog he is that none of those things caused any concern/flinching given he really is just a baby still!

Speaking of sofas. I'd been considering getting new ones, but with Tuna-Fish on the way it would be a bad idea. So I got them re-stuffed instead. £700 and should last 5-8 years (depending on use and abuse...and they get a lot of use). Cannot quibble about that but it does, sadly, mean I won't be getting the lovely Loaf sofa anytime soon. 😞

@Silverbirchleaf I've not seen it, but I did just goon their website! I love the idea of sheepdog training. I'd absolutely love a lesson doing something like that. Perhaps as a Christmas present to myself...

@SpanielsGalore I think Satan did it out of spite but I am unfair about her. She's on dementia meds now and doesn't do it (allegedly...).

You're far more adventurous than me! I have such a phobia of heights...and enclosed spaces...and oceans...and basically everything that my bucket list just has pointless things on it like 'get sofa stuffed.' 😂

Do you know where he might be going next? Or is it anyones guess?

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 26/10/2026 20:18

I'm so excited @TheHungryHungryLandsharks Odilon does things for bits of kibble 🎉and he doesn't just look at me like he's thinking "fuck off woman, I'm not doing what you tell me". Well, not yet at least. It's amazing. He's so clever and a very quick learner. So I'm trying proper training (ish). Kind of. A bit. Not sure how long it'll be before he gets wise to me, but so far so good.

Seriously though. He is an incredibly bright puppy with a lot of potential so clearly wasted on me and I'm actually quite excited by the possibility of having a well trained dog.

Oh god, puppy thread, yes. Help 😨Out of my depth again. Thank you for changing the subject but I'm sure they'll all pile in on me now and play kick the idiot.

Speaking of play, I was intrigued by the concept that a crate teaches your dog not to play at night...🤔 I'll have to ask Brie what she plays at night now. Poker? Chess? Backgammon perhaps? She does have a poker face for sure so I reckon it's that.

Struckbylightning · 26/10/2026 23:30

Thank you for the compliments on my dog/ sofa combo. Maybe I should write to Loaf… the only issue with the sofas is that they are very low to the ground. When my parents stay over they have to dismount onto all fours then clamber to their feet from the floor. A hard ask for a pair of octogenarians! I am currently looking to buy some risers for this Christmas.

@SpanielsGalore I went on Safari in Kenya many moons ago, as part of a school trip so it was only a couple of days. It was really wonderful. I am incredibly impressed that you have done a parachute jump. I don’t think I could jump out of plane even if my life depended on it. Absolutely not. Ever.

@Silverbirchleaf Yes I have seen those puppies on TikTok!! That naughty puppy is so like Merry!

Don't want to re-ignite the crate debate, but both my dogs have been free range and both slept through the night from day one. Merry settles down after her evening walk at about 8 and sleeps till I wake up. She moves from spot to spot through the evening but that is it. I have no idea what she is doing after I go to bed. A jigsaw puzzle perhaps?

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 27/10/2026 00:22

Apparently almost all working dogs are crated at night. Who knew?
Presumably the Anatolians guarding the flocks in the mountains of Turkey are fending off the wolves whilst sitting inside a small cage. Interesting picture really.
But I think I'm done with it now, my anxiety is spiralling. I'll walk away and focus on keeping my two from playing poker all night.
Sweet dreams all.

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 27/10/2026 07:31

@CoubousAndTourmaIet i was a bit franker this time, but I really dont think it’s fair to join your thread to reignite an argument with you. Which seems to be what happened here. People need to build a bridge and get over it and keep the positive vibes.

@Struckbylightning perhaps in exchange for them using Merry in their photos they could provide you with some sort of stilts for the sofa? 😂

Tbh knowing Merry’s intellect she’s probably plotting world domination or going to Mensa classes or building a space shuttle.

Horribly weather today! Small bit of rain but it’s really really muggy! Not my idea of fun! Twatdog made friends with a mini pinscher! Unusual as most male dogs hate him (as he’s intact) but this one was all over him. It’s nice to see him make friends with other male dogs - usually it’s just the girls. We also saw his girlfriend who ignored him! Think she’s not over the fact she caught him playing with is other girlfriend….but I don’t think ‘treat them mean to keep them keen will work with him’ (he just sulks and holds a grudge…a bit like most human men 😂)

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 27/10/2026 08:11

I'm stepping away from puppy thread @TheHungryHungryLandsharks . I did not see the deleted post so I don't know whether it was critical of me for advocating free range puppy rearing, or critical of the one closed crating a Border Collie for 11 hours. She was the one that took the crate debate onto a safe neutral space, but I'm guessing that I'm the villain of the piece.

I don't know if I'll continue to post here or if I'll delete my account permanently.

We think we've finally turned a corner with the digestive issues, and pup slept quietly from 11pm to 6am, he was still quiet when DP got up and took him outside. So looks like we're pretty much done with the toilet training (barring any setbacks) at 11 weeks. We can now focus on lead training and socialisation/acclimatisation.

Hope everyone has a good day, the weather looks a bit brighter here, so I might be able to get the little one out. Brie has already had her morning walk.

SpanielsGalore · 27/10/2026 09:22

I typed a long reply yesterday about my use of crates, but I lost it and can't be arsed to type it all again.
In summary, I said it's not a black and white issue. There are grey areas.
No one is going to convince me that shutting a small cocker spaniel puppy in a 42" crate overnight did them harm.

I wouldn't agree wih a bigger dog being kept in a small cage or dogs being crated all day whilst their owners are out.

@CoubousAndTourmaIet Can I ask what you mean by 'freedom puppies develop adult behaviours early'? Genuine question. I'm not having a dig at you or anything.

Glad Odo enjoyed his first little walk and wasn't phased by anything. And it's brilliant that he slept through the night. Hopefully you'll be ble to return to the comfort of your own bed soon.

@TheHungryHungryLandsharks I'm scared of heights too. Although after discussing it with my eldest recently, we decided we had a fear of falling rather than heights. We can do tall buildings, but not cliff tops.

DS's next planned deployment is 6 months in Estonia at the tail end of 2027 into 2028. But things could change before then. He's much happier now he's changed company. They're treated more like adults and not made to stand pointlessly on parade 4 times a day in the pouring rain. Plus he isn't having to dig holes and then fill them back in again. Always a bonus!

@Struckbylightning Wow. You had far more exciting school trips than me. We just did the usual trips to Normandy. I'm determined to go on Safari one day. I was supposed to go for my 50th, but we spent the money on moving to Scotland instead.

It's very windy here again. We're on another yellow weather warning. But at least the skies are blue for a change. Should really get the dogs out before it starts raining again. But they're all asleep at the minute, so I'll probably have another cup of tea instead.

Is anyone else having problems with the site? I keep being logged out and I don't know my details to get back in again. Apparently my email address isn't a registered one, so I don't know how I got here.

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tizwozliz · 27/10/2026 09:52

Little pup's sole use of a crate was to use it as a stepping stone to leap onto the dining table 😂

SpanielsGalore · 27/10/2026 09:57

tizwozliz · 27/10/2026 09:52

Little pup's sole use of a crate was to use it as a stepping stone to leap onto the dining table 😂

😂😂

My friend's NI used to sleep on top of hers.

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TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 27/10/2026 10:08

@tizwozliz little pup sounds a bit like mine!

@SpanielsGalore everything has it's place (which is what I said, but then it all continued). 😭

Dig holes and fill them back in? Had someone been reading Sachar books? 😂I loved that film when it came out though...it was a well written book as well tbh.

Estonia is really lovely. Does he get to see any of the country at all, or is he confined? I never really understand how it works as in some places the deployed troops have so much freedom and movement (or seem to at least) and in other places they don't.

Nope. No heights for me! I don't even like going over the Dartford Bridge. 😑

@CoubousAndTourmaIet I don't think anyone thinks you're the villain.! As you sad a disagreement on another thread bought into that thread for no reason other than to be spikey.

CoubousAndTourmaIet · 27/10/2026 10:35

I do know it's not black and white @SpanielsGalore and I had stated on Puppy Thread that I did not want the debate there, I wanted it to be a safe haven for all, but one of them wouldn't leave it. She gave her reasons for crating, I gave my reasons for not crating. I thought we could leave it there but clearly not.

You asked, so I will try to explain what I mean by developing adult behaviours early. The person on there who kept disputing everything I said, suggested that a closed crate at night teaches puppies that nighttime is for sleeping and not for play. Whilst I was flippant here yesterday (which I know you don't like) about whether my dogs were playing chess or poker at night, in my experience, her theory has no bearing whatsoever. We remove chews at night, for safety reasons, but we don't remove toys, so the pups still have access to some robust toys. They just don't play at night, ever. They weren't taught that, but when the house is quiet and dark they settle. They move around a lot, which is vital for temperature regulation in a heavy double coated breed, but they do it quietly. They aren't bouncing off the walls at 4am.

Another common justification for crating is the argument that "they wreck your house", and that if a teething puppy has free access you must live in a pigsty. Well, we don't have a show home, admittedly, but nor do we live in squalor, and the dining table remains uneaten. We have had no significant issues with chewing and again - where we have, it was, for example Brie chewing on a kitchen mat in daytime as a young adult. At night they just don't seem to chew stuff, even when they're teething.

So I suppose what I mean by the comment that free range or freedom puppies, call it what you will, develop adult behaviours early on, is just that. The silly puppy behaviour of chewing, ball chasing, zoomies etc just doesn't happen during the night or when pups are left in a room (or two) alone. Some of our dogs were left all day on occasion, when I had hospital appointments in Manchester or Liverpool but they were fine.

We've never ever needed to do "enforced naps" or "decompression" either. Yes, the pups get "Witching Hour" zoomies and have a mad half hour. Brie is boisterous and playful, they are very normal, energetic dogs. But at home, no trouble. They're calm, good food manners and the babies are like little adults. O is like that now. That has been our experience with all of ours, and nothing will ever convince me that routine crating overnight is either necessary or desirable. The first three were my parents dogs when I was teens/early twenties but still at home, so maybe to say 10 is misleading, but DP and I have had 7 dogs here and all of them have been from working lines, not just show. I know the general consensus on mn is that working dogs are a bit mental, but we haven't found that to be true either.

The other myth I want to debunk is that dogs need to be crate trained in case of being hospitalised. Ours were not crate trained but two of the girls had major surgery and were crated at the vets, one of the boys was also crated for an emergency vet stay. They caused no fuss, although there is no way that any of them would ever have tolerated being in a crate at home. Rose had major leg surgery twice and we managed the aftercare at home with no crate. I can't say it was easy but we did it.

So, whilst I know you don't agree with my views about a lot of stuff, that's fine. But I stand by what I've said. I agree with @TheHungryHungryLandsharks up to a point, that if crating is done "correctly" it can be helpful in some circumstances, but 11 hours in a closed crate every night for a high energy herding breed should not be considered acceptable, and in many countries it wouldn't be.

I'm probably likely to get trolled, so I'll either bugger off or change my name. I just can't be arsed with it any more tbh. I apologise for causing disruption on your thread (again). I know I'll never be anything but an outlier with outlier dogs anyway so I don't honestly know why I bother, except that I've learned a lot from being here. Particularly from Landsharks and the now absent brushingboots. And I still think Bill is the cutest puppy that ever lived (with apologies to all the other gorgeous babies here). But my neighbour has just said that our little O is cuteness overload too 😊

Have a good day All.

Silverbirchleaf · 27/10/2026 10:55

@CoubousAndTourmaIet Please please please can we have a picture of Master Cuteness Overload? More competition for Bill (and his silky ears)?