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elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 08:40

Can't find a pets forum. I have a springer spaniel. I've had three before him and maybe it's my age but this guy is a good man but a strange one. He is unfettered and yet anxious at both ends of the spectrum. He is not a working dog. He roams free 2 days a week (on a farm) and howls non stop when any family member leaves the house. He is bright but probably should be left on the farm. However that is not possible, for several reasons.

Now I want to introduce a terrier, a Jack Russell to be specific. I am going to get hate, I think. Very bad idea? If not male/female/ neutered/un-neutered? He is a full male. I know this breed better and love them and had great springers before with appropriate exercise levels. But I think this fella has beaten me. He is never put in kennels and is never aggressive, just wired. Is adding a pup to the mix going to be a bad thing?

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elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:10

BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:07

He could "refocus"??????

WTF do you mean by that?

so every personality in life is the same? Sometimes there is an odd dog.

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beaglescurleduplikebagels · 22/08/2026 10:11

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:04

Because he could refocus.

But there's no guarantee of that and you could end up with two dogs with behavioural issues you can't handle - then what would you do?

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:11

yes 5 years and nobody can handle him. And? I guess you think you could.

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BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:12

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:10

so every personality in life is the same? Sometimes there is an odd dog.

Yes of course, which contradicts your sentence above
And I must reiterate I have owned 3 springers before him, none who needed this.

???

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:13

I have never had a dog with behavioural issues before (or a child). So what to do?

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elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:13

BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:12

Yes of course, which contradicts your sentence above
And I must reiterate I have owned 3 springers before him, none who needed this.

???

where is the contradiction?

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DeanGaffneysCumFace · 22/08/2026 10:13

Have you thought about getting a retired greyhound OP?

Pasithean · 22/08/2026 10:14

Re home the dog and never get another , unless your willing to change

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:15

I absolutely would actually @DeanGaffneysCumFace . But my main question is for a full male dog, with anxiety issues, what is best. Still quite a simple question.

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BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:16

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:13

I have never had a dog with behavioural issues before (or a child). So what to do?

Rehome the Springer at least so he gets a better owner.

Monkeypuppy · 22/08/2026 10:16

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:04

Because he could refocus.

Do you mean that you think he'll focus on the puppy and he'll stop feeling anxious? That won't work, his anxiety will continue, it could very well get worse, and the new puppy could pick up bad habits from the spaniel.

It's a much better idea to hire a behaviourist, not a trainer, and work on dealing with the separation anxiety.

I think it's a very bad idea to get a puppy at this time.

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:17

haha, I suppose you are the girl with 4 german shepherds or french bulldogs

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elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:17

all neutered to you will

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BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:17

Are you drunk or stoned?

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:18

neither, just as mad as my springer.

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BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:19

Well no wonder he's got issues.

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:19

who probably gets more exercise than your cats

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DeanGaffneysCumFace · 22/08/2026 10:19

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:15

I absolutely would actually @DeanGaffneysCumFace . But my main question is for a full male dog, with anxiety issues, what is best. Still quite a simple question.

Well it's pretty simple, sort your dog out. Do not add another.

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:20

@BMW58 what have you?

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RocketPanda · 22/08/2026 10:21

You are not the right owner for this dog. Please contact a rescue to help find a suitable home.

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:21

@DeaaffneysCumFace what have you? A bichon frise? or a tibetan mastiff.

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beaglescurleduplikebagels · 22/08/2026 10:22

OP, you sound quite unwell. Are you okay?

BMW58 · 22/08/2026 10:22

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:20

@BMW58 what have you?

No pets since my dog died 3 years ago. He had separation anxiety for a long time.

elfendom1 · 22/08/2026 10:22

RocketPanda · 22/08/2026 10:21

You are not the right owner for this dog. Please contact a rescue to help find a suitable home.

I'll throw him out tomorrow, he'll come back mind, the seperation issues and all that.

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