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What helped your nervous rescue dog?

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FfissiLlissi · 19/07/2026 10:05

First of all, I’m working with a trainer and behaviourist and vet, so I’m taking a variety of professional advice but I also want to hear some real world experiences.

We adopted DDog eighteen months ago when she was about 5. She’s a golden cocker, former puppy farm breeder. She has a wonderful kind nature but was evidently never socialised and seems to have been beaten as she is terrified of raised hands and sudden movements even after a year and a half.

She is much better than she was and loves walks and affection but she’s still very anxious on a daily basis. Any commotion in the house upsets her for days and she will wee on her bed, the carpets and furniture until she’s feeling secure again.

She absolutely cannot tolerate travelling in the car and is sick within half a mile, so we are very limited on where we can take her. We have taken her out on longer journeys once or twice to National Trust houses and she loves it when she gets there but finds the travelling very traumatic so we don’t do it at the moment.

She has a number of beds and safe spaces around the house. Her favourite is her crate which has a blanket over it but allows her to look out over the garden through the French doors and back into the kitchen, so she feels hidden but still in touch with what’s happening in her territory.

Photo tax coming.

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FfissiLlissi · 19/07/2026 10:09

Photo tax. Please ignore the pyjamas 🙈

What helped your nervous rescue dog?
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TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 19/07/2026 18:25

Honestly, all of this is incredibly normal for an ex-breeding bitch from a puppy farm.

My parents have a rescue cocker spaniel (lovingly dubbed Satan). She was a breeding bitch, rescued at about a similar age but perhaps a bit older.

The only thing that ever works for dogs in these circumstances is time. It took years to get Satan to a point where someone could get up off the sofa without her flying off and barking at anything, months before she'd eat properly without being coaxed and even longer before she would actively approach and seek affection.

My parents deliberately didn't have my DDs over for over a year (children and traumatised rescues is never a good idea), they never pushed her for anything, they gave her space, they rewarded good behaviour but didn't criticise negative - if she barked they just ignored it. But it is just a matter of time. One day it will just click and she'll trust you. But it could take another two or even five years.

They've had Satan about 7 years now so she's about 13(ish) and it's only the last few years that she has really softened. Honestly, she's probably the most loyal dog my parents have ever had and she's utterly devoted to my mum - but that's because she is a rescue and rescues 'love' in a different way to dogs you've had from puppyhood.

BEAchDays2 · 19/07/2026 18:48

Satan 😂😭🐾🐾❤️

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