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Family's adored girl is near the end, how can I help them??

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UsedToBeAContender · 24/08/2012 18:01

Although I haven't lived at home (near my parents and DB) for many years, my DCs and DH and I visit often and we are all very close.

Their dear old girl is now 15.5 Shock and her back legs have just failed for the second time. She's had a stroke before but after relentless love, affection and exercise my DB helped her regain the use of her back legs at that time. Now, she's very old, has cataracts so can't see very well, she's quite deaf and generally a very tired old lady. They're heartbroken as they fairly certain that when they see the vet on Tuesday he's going to tell them that it's time.

I'm not currently a dog owner but I ache to see the depth of their grief, this was pretty much my DB's child and my parents were devoted to her also. I never really lived at home while they had her but she's a lovely dog and we're all going to really miss her. Sad

I just don't know what to say or do. They're devastated.

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ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 24/08/2012 21:42

There's not much you can do but be supportive :( When my childhood dog was PTS I was 27, and still heartbroken. The best responses were from people who just said 'sorry' and shared memories of their own dogs etc. The worst were the ones who said shit like 'Sorry, but you'll get over it. It was just a dog'. Er, no you insesitive arse, she was my friend :(. You sound like a lovely sister/daughter, and when the time comes I'm sure you'll find the right words and be able to give them a hug :)

UsedToBeAContender · 27/08/2012 20:37

Thank you, I just hate seeing them all so unhappy. It's a new thing for the dcs too so am going to have to explain it to them also!
So sad. Thanks for the advice. Smile

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kilmuir · 27/08/2012 20:38

yes be supportive, listen and have tissues to hand.

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