I don't get it either. I think it's all rather grim truth be told. I don't 'get' how it can enhance and strengthen a marriage by shagging other people in front of your partner. Someone will get jealous for sure. Someone always does.
The 32 y.o. blonde woman who went with 2 men (her husband and the man she said she thought was gorgeous) was all for it, and her husband was upset and angry that she had the passion for another man that she had never had for him.
Yet he still went ahead with it, crossed the line they had agreed not to cross and allowed her to kiss another man, (the first one they went with,) and he got upset. Then afterwards they went with the man she thought was gorgeous, and he said it was an amazing thing to do, and the best thing ever, and their marriage is stronger than ever.
And major cringe at the couple who were turned down by TWO of the resident women at the 'sex lodge.' 'Errrr sorry guys, but I am feeling more 'friend' vibes and - 'brother' vibes.' aka 'I don't remotely fancy you. Jog on...'
As has been said, how can you ever look your neighbours, family, friends, and work colleagues in the eye after appearing on this? The blonde woman I was on about was clearly being given oral sex by her husband, whilst the other man sucked and licked her boobs! And what about the children? (I know! Won't someone think of the children!!) Their kids will be be ripped apart by other kids at school, and God knows what names they will call their mother. (And it will sadly, be the mother who will get the name calling.')
WHY would people go on TV and do this? Indeed, why would anyone do it at all? 