I understand Dom has a big mouth and that can rub people up the wrong way. However I think she's a genuine person and the things she says are either to help people or to call bullshit where it's due, eg. with Carolina.
If she was just a mouthy person dishing out what she can't receive back, she would've went in on Mitch about wanting to leave. But she took peoples feelings into account and did address it with him but in a gentler way that he would appreciate and listen to.
Tamara often pipes up with comments but hasn't ever been called out within the group for it, and same with Olivia. I wonder if the group are scared of her or have seen what she does to her enemies so feel it's better to have her as a friend for the time being. Can't imagine anyone keeping a friendship with her post show once they've seen all the vile things she's been saying.
I agree with what others have said. It's not really about the photo but the orchestration of it all, deliberately showing everyone but Mitch and Ella made it clear it was to be giggling behind Dom's back and judging her, not feeling 'uncomfortable' to address it with her. Her onlyfans is likely private yes, but there is a level of risk that things could get leaked.
I'm not pro only fans but I'm not slut shaming about it either, if people wish to do that then good on them but I appreciate there's always a possibility of friends, family and now national TV potentially seeing incriminating things. Had Olivia found the photo and addressed it matter of fact with her direct it would be a totally different conversation and most likely Dom would've owned it and not felt uncomfortable at all.
Maaan I'm way too invested in this show!