Alexis is going to turn out to be quite a hard-nut I think… the way she said that as a result of being bullied she “turned into someone she didn’t like” (aka: became a bully herself). Then it was v telling that her first line of her vows was: “I can’t promise to never be angry”.
Sounds also like she’s got a long history of unhealthy relationships from what she said, and has high barriers as a result.
I do feel for her, but got a feeling that she’s going to turn out to be quite scary at times.