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Dispatches: family courts expose

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Misty9 · 20/07/2021 22:39

Is anyone watching? It's horrendous what goes on behind closed doors. Literally :(

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Stoolpigeon21 · 20/07/2021 22:41

Shocking - I can’t believe that the wishes of the older children interviewed were completely ignored

Willowkins · 20/07/2021 22:47

Those poor kids - and the arrogance of those judges who are not made accountable for their decisions.

Misty9 · 20/07/2021 22:47

I know! When do caffcass get involved then?

And these judges comments are absolutely disgusting Angry

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Garfunkle · 20/07/2021 22:48

What channel?

Misty9 · 20/07/2021 22:50

@Garfunkle

What channel?
C4
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Misty9 · 20/07/2021 22:52

The footage of teenagers being forcibly removed was harrowing. The system is being used completely inappropriately. There's plenty of research on the long lasting negative impact of disrupted attachment :(

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Garfunkle · 20/07/2021 22:52

Got it. Thank you 👍

Misty9 · 20/07/2021 22:54

I wonder how many of the judges and magistrates are female...

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Stoolpigeon21 · 20/07/2021 22:54

The other jaw dropping case was the mother who found her children’s father was a convicted paedophile yet still has had to go to court 37 times.

Crazycakelady17 · 20/07/2021 22:57

This is awful just at the bit now where them poor children being dragged away by the police

Pebbledashery · 20/07/2021 23:00

I'm recording this to watch tomorrow. Place marking so I can look at this thread tomorrow. Utterly distressing I can imagine though. I'm part way through family court proceedings and just had findings of domestic abuse and child abuse found against my monster horrific ex. Pray that the system doesn't fail us and cafcass and the local authority recognise he is a deranged danger to a small child.

PepperPepperMan · 20/07/2021 23:01

@Misty9

I wonder how many of the judges and magistrates are female...
Not many, so sad
Misty9 · 20/07/2021 23:01

@Stoolpigeon21

The other jaw dropping case was the mother who found her children’s father was a convicted paedophile yet still has had to go to court 37 times.
It's absolutely shocking isn't it? And the poor woman is likely to have to face it all again when the barring order expires in a year's time :( These parents (usually women) are just totally trapped in a relentless nightmare. Think how often posters are advised to ltb on here?! For good reason, often. But the nightmare doesn't end there it seems.
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Misty9 · 20/07/2021 23:02

@Pebbledashery

I'm recording this to watch tomorrow. Place marking so I can look at this thread tomorrow. Utterly distressing I can imagine though. I'm part way through family court proceedings and just had findings of domestic abuse and child abuse found against my monster horrific ex. Pray that the system doesn't fail us and cafcass and the local authority recognise he is a deranged danger to a small child.
Really sorry to hear you're going through this and I really hope you have an enlightened judge :( Flowers
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Stoolpigeon21 · 20/07/2021 23:04

@Pebbledashery

I'm recording this to watch tomorrow. Place marking so I can look at this thread tomorrow. Utterly distressing I can imagine though. I'm part way through family court proceedings and just had findings of domestic abuse and child abuse found against my monster horrific ex. Pray that the system doesn't fail us and cafcass and the local authority recognise he is a deranged danger to a small child.
Fingers crossed for you and your children
20questions · 20/07/2021 23:15

@Misty9 Check out the desperate damage an appalling sanctimonious woman judge did in the tragic case of little Ellie Butler.

Misty9 · 20/07/2021 23:24

[quote 20questions]www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/jun/22/ellie-butler-judge-took-unwarranted-steps-to-reunite-her-with-violent-parents[/quote]
Awful :( the family court seems to be completely unaccountable and that's dangerous

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Misty9 · 20/07/2021 23:25

And how coincidental that the judge retired Angry

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OttilieStonelady · 21/07/2021 07:13

Sadly this is all too common. I'm in court proceedings. Had findings of domestic abuse (racial, coercive control, endangering our child, handling our 6 month old roughly etc), and they're still pushing for contact. He's a monster. He's going to ruin us both if he gets access (which he will). 2 non mols and a load of PTSD later and here we are.

OttilieStonelady · 21/07/2021 07:15

@Misty9

I wonder how many of the judges and magistrates are female...
Lots. But it's the male judges who have treated me the worst.
SpaceRaiders · 21/07/2021 07:25

www.change.org/p/prime-minister-theresa-may-voice-of-the-child-culture-change-within-the-family-court

I didn’t watch this, but I expect it would have been too triggering. Here’s a petition that needs more support, it’s about time family court was open to public scrutiny.

Stoolpigeon21 · 21/07/2021 07:39

@SpaceRaiders

www.change.org/p/prime-minister-theresa-may-voice-of-the-child-culture-change-within-the-family-court

I didn’t watch this, but I expect it would have been too triggering. Here’s a petition that needs more support, it’s about time family court was open to public scrutiny.

Signed and shared
Pebbledashery · 21/07/2021 08:13

I actually can't believe what I watched. Harrowing doesn't even describe it. Those screams of those teenagers were horrific. I can't even believe this happens in real life. Police turning up at midnight!!

RevolvingPivot · 21/07/2021 09:20

Hi. Sorry to be so naive i've just started watching.

Can I check what's happening? A judge has said for whatever reason the kids must live with their dad. The kids don't want too so are being removed?

Dos the court not need evidence that the mum is abusive or can the kids not have a say?

I'm literally 9 minutes in so all may come clear.

If the father truly cared for the children wouldn't he do what's best for them? Let them stay with mom if that's what they want?

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