I also agree amber did the right thing taking ovie on a date, Michael had just dumped her, how humiliating to take him on a date to hear him tell her no again. I can't see why the decision not to take Michael was baffling to anyone. As amber her self said, it would have just been mugging herself off. No one needs to beg.
I'm also stunned at people who seem to think Amy's behavuour was in any way shape or form acceptable. From deciding unilaterally. With no input from Curtis that she was going to marry him and have his babies, through to making a leaving speech that was akin to ending a forty year marriage, it was all odd in the extreme.
And yes of course there is stuff we haven't seen. That's no secret. Amy herself said she's cried for three days.
The producers have said she was removed from the villa "for days" to work with counsellors. She is clearly being portrayed in a way to protect her and not reveal the extent of what went on in there. And that's fair enough. None of us need to see her devastation fully. It doesn't need to be fully aired on tv. For her sake.
Whose decision was it for her to leave, I'd guess it was hers, but with some prompting from the counsellors to think that way, and also due to the extent of her devastation and having to be removed for her well being prior.