After she comes back from the dead and she is in financial trouble and it all adds to the stress and Giles gives her a cheque it occurred to me that as a watcher he gets paid (Buffy got them to give him his job back and a salary was mentioned then) so why does the slayer not get paid when they have one that lives through school age? It would have made life a lot easier. Do they expect an adult slayer to get a job and still be slayer? They must know she has to support herself.
Also. The death thing. She had a grave so clearly had been properly buried and everything but they were using the Buffy bot to pretend she was alive including pretending she was looking after dawn. But if she had a grave she was legally dead so how come that didn't come up with regards to who was caring for dawn? They cared enough to set social workers on her later so clearly dawn was in the system and it wasn't some dawn isn't really real so isn't in the system thing.