I still feel that the strippergate was set up to make T look bad. I think she was nervous when the bald man turned up at the show a she then knew that she'd been set up and he was going to say something. Hence her asking M to go to the loo with her.
I am not T's biggest fan, that's just my gut feeling from watching the show.
I do think Joe is cheating on her and will cheat with anyone who will let him and he's def a shady business man.
I also feel that Melissa takes the opportunity to make T look bad. She knows that T is bit thick and quick to react and takes advantage of that. Also plays on the fact that her husband adores her and knows he's punching above his weight so to speak.
What she said about moving to get her children away from T's children was incredibly hurtful. The children seem to play nicely together so who's to say that in 10 years time that they will hate each other just because the parents do?
Caroline has been a big shit stirrer and bully in this season. she bully's her children and she's made issues out of non issues. I don't think T deliberately left Kathy out of the toast in any malicious way, she was saying thank you to those that had invited her, happy birthday to Caroline and how she was pleased her and Melissa and Joe had made good progress with their relationship.
Now to be really mean I thought Lauren looked awful, she was far too orange, and gone down the too much make up, too short/small dress and heels she couldn't walk in, just because she'd lost 35lb.