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Panorama - I want my baby back

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BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 13/01/2014 21:29

Anyone watching?

This promoting of the idea that SS want to steal babies makes me very uneasy...

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wizardpc · 14/01/2014 18:59

I am not a massive subscriber of the money thing. However, it is an 'overall' industry which must be fed.

However, that doesn't mean social workers do not have targets or that they do not target certain groups. There doesn't need to be a link.

Spero · 14/01/2014 19:00

So does your friend find this work lucrative?

Given the number of solicitors firms that have now closed down because they can't make a profit doing legal aid work, I will be surprised if he/she says 'yes'.

Just had a quick look at some of the Justice for Linda stuff - the prevailing view seems to be 'all governments are corrupt'.

interestingly, one site claims that the LA which kidnapped her baby is operating at a £40,000,000 deficit. So what benefit is there to that LA to spend further money on kidnapping children?

They must be getting paid one hell of a bonus.

AnandaTimeIn · 14/01/2014 19:00

Very disturbing.....

Good on Panorama for highlighting it!

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:04

no she works incredibly long hours, weekends b ut she gets huge satisfaction from giving the right advice and keeping children out of care and with parents

Spero · 14/01/2014 19:05

And if is NOT the money as you now appear to be saying WHAT then is the motivation to target particular groups of people?

LoveSewingBee · 14/01/2014 19:06

I haven't read the whole thread but did see the program.

I found it heart breaking. My conclusion is:

  • the family court system needs to be reformed and information needs to be made public and people should be allowed to speak about their case
  • parents should be allowed to appeal and if they have no money then they should get legal aid to enable them to appeal
  • medical experts testifying in court should be forced to follow a course in advances statistics and not be allowed to testify unless they passed such a course
  • one of the experts was 100% sure, wasn't that the same with Roy Meadows (if that was his name, the SIDS guy), statistically this is utter nonsense unless they witnessed the actual abuse
  • these children which are being disputed should not be allowed to be adopted but only long-term fostering

Of course children needs to be protected, absolutely, but this also does enormous harm to all involved.

Sneezecakesmum · 14/01/2014 19:07

Is wizard the man that used to post very extreme view regarding adoption etc on the legal site?

Lilka · 14/01/2014 19:08

Adoptions already can be overturned IF the correct legal procedures have not been followed (or, in the case of a relinquished baby, the birth mother proves that she only consented through coercion/blackmail etc)

However, if all the correct procedures are followed, then it is irreversible. As it should be. Making adoption reversible would result in abusive parents launching court cases as well, and would cause massive instablity and harm to a multitude of children, of whom only a tiny percentage would be children who perhaps could have stayed with their birth parents safely.

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:12

no I havent been on any legal sites

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:16

@Spero - I dont think it's a motivation - it's more bad luck. People fall under their radar - they label them. Mothers have had children taken at birth for more little more than mental health issues. AND there is often no prior warning. Im sure you all saw the woman on This Morning that this happened to. She lost her child for quite a while before getting her back. She had no warning, no idea that they were going to take her child in the delivery suite. She'd failed to turn up for a course..............to cure her for a fear of spiders. She'd booked the course herself.

You do need to accept that, whatever the reason, and I don't know the reasons and nor do you - certain people get sucked into their world for very little sometimes.

ouryve · 14/01/2014 19:17

So the Linda Lewis case is hardly one of cute babies being "stolen" to order, is it? (that word , stolen, dehumanises the children involved, IMO, They're people, not possessions.)

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:19

@Spero -Bonnie Lwis was snatched in 1998/9 - it was to cover up for medical negligence. The hospital that removed her appendix (wrongly) was for some reason without a licence to perform certain kinds of operation at the time. The court case would have broken the Trust.

So they went to the US and snatched a child on a false passport and without a pickup order and labelled the mother with Munchausens. The mother has been fighting for justice for 15 years.

Lilka · 14/01/2014 19:20

little more than mental health issues

Really? Mental ill health runs the gamut from that which is mild and does not affect your ability to parent, and that which is extremely serious and would make someone very unsafe round a child. There are many many motehrs in this country who have MH problems, and yet only a very small proportion of mothers with MH difficulties will lose their children. Serious cases

My 17 year old has MH issues. So does her birth mum. Neither of them are capable of looking after a child alone, and that is in part due to their mental and emotional health.

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:27

Thats where you can get lucky or unlucky. I dare say if you put the same person in two different LAs you might get different results.

Women do lose their children for having been in care all their lives or having sometimes mental health issues. Roll a die, pick a number.

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 14/01/2014 19:28

anyone got a link to the linda lewis story with slightly less of a racist bias?

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Lilka · 14/01/2014 19:32

It's not like randomly rolling a die!!!! If it was, a lot more children would be in care

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:33

unfortunately the only person who ran with it was an ex BNP councillor. he's been amazing at getting to the bottom of it

Councillor Kevin Edwards. Search for his blog

Also the Uk Column has given it lots of coverage.

It is a shocking story

wizardpc · 14/01/2014 19:33

er well actually a lot of children in care - 10,000 a year - I think thats a lot.

Lilka · 14/01/2014 19:36

Do you know how many people have MH problems compared to that number? Clue - it's in the millions

And quite a lot of those 10,000 childrens cases won't have MH as a factor

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 14/01/2014 19:38

Does noone with less of an agenda have the story? The daily mail perhaps?

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Spero · 14/01/2014 19:38

AND there is often no prior warning. Im sure you all saw the woman on This Morning that this happened to. She lost her child for quite a while before getting her back. She had no warning, no idea that they were going to take her child in the delivery suite.

Really? Whenever I am in court applying for an Emergency Protection Order is is quite hard work. These are not rubber stamped you know. They are seen as incredibly serious and in any event can operate for only a very limited time.

The only other way to 'snatch' a child without warning is for the police to use their powers of protection.

Are you absolutely sure you are being given all the facts of these cases?

Spero · 14/01/2014 19:41

thanks for that link Beyond. Very illuminating. I now know that LA go in armed to secure their babies for cash bonuses.

In this article here, this site introduced you to the frightening case of Bonnie Lewis, a young child who was taken away from her mother at the point of a gun.

Really wizard? really? If LA were taking children at gun point, don't you think the Daily Mail might have noticed and commented by now?

Spero · 14/01/2014 19:43

Cheers wizard, for opening my eyes to conspiracy theories even madder and more depressing than those of John Hemmings.

Here's another little gem from one of the commentators

"THIS IS ONLY THE BEGINNING!
SOON IT WILL BE A CRIME TO BE WHITE!
i have preached to you that WW 3 will be a race war.
soon, as white nations AWAKE to the facts that their homeland and birthright has been stolen by invading hordes, the last few whites will try to organize and fight.
The multicultural nations will declare war and bomb the white nations.
1/3 will die in war, 1/3 by starvation and disease and 1/3 will go into captivity! "

These are your bedfellows wizard. Sleep well.

ouryve · 14/01/2014 19:44

Beyond, All of them seem to link back to the councillor's blog
ukgovernmentwatch.wordpress.com/2013/05/20/justice-for-linda-lewis-a-parent-from-neath-port-talbot-finally/ says a bit, but not much.

Then I delved into another site and found homophobic comments, so no better than the others.