My teen shouts a lot. Explosive.

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When she shouts.
My husband then tells me off when I say don't shout.
It's hell. He rewards her rudeness all the time.

She's diverse. This isn't normal.

And his behaviour isn't either.

It's breaking me.

Lots of parents say it's normal for girls to shout and be rude.

I really really don't think this is normal.

She's 17 now. It's awful.

Help! Did anyone have this?
How did they cope?

Why is your husband "telling you off", ?
Is this happening in front of your daughter?

I don't allow anyone to shout at me, it is disrespectful, and I simply don't like it.

Can she get an autism or adhd assessment?

Yes. He allows it. He also shouts.
I think she is ND.

Eek an assessment and good post diagnostic support for both of you x