My 16 year old is moving out and going to dad because he is angry with me that I won’t bring back his ex girlfriend. The break up happened over a year ago. I am devastated, He is autistic and has ADHD, he finds it difficult to talk and so we mainly text. I have put so much energy into helping him over the years it feels like I have been punched. Dad says he is fine at his, doesn’t get the behaviour that I do. Finding it so hard to think that he wants to shut me out of his life.